There is no better way to win the heart of any person instead of praising. Once Dale Carnegie had said ! do not know when we start to appreciate then why we forget the words. And the tongue is stuck. But when we start calling someone badly, then the tongue & mind becomes fluent. You will be able to become a praising specialist after knowing the tips given in this post.
3 P's Formula
According to the 3 P's formula if you want that any man should do any work again or to repeat any work. So appreciate him with your heart.
And if you want that a person does not repeat any work & he will get exhausted by doing the same work. So do not appreciate him, say him badly.
There is not such a single person in the whole world who doesn't like appreciation. And do not want to hear appreciation.
Three fantastic and wonderful ways of appreciation.
- Verbal Praise
- Touch Praise
- Visual Praise
Verbal Praise:
In verbal praise, you appreciate with your tongue. like
Masha Allah, Good, Wow, You are great, etc.
Touch Praise:
In this praise, you do not appreciate with your tongue but with your body. Such as shaking handswith enthusiasm,hugging,Taping,hand over the head, taking him for food & walk with you.
No one listen this praise but seeing with his eyes.Such as a letter of love, card, photo, any kind of gift, sending a love or encouraging message or sending a photo on mobile.
Friends,which method of praise you like, follow that. Now the question is that how you know which thing you have to appreciate? What would you like to appreciate after seeing a person?
You can appreciate a person's personal quality, ability,capability, education, performance,skill, success or something. Personality Quality means any quality a man possess such as honesty, punctuality,open heart,generous,morality & smiling etc.
God Has Never Created Any Person Without Quality
Allah has not created any person without any quality until today. When you see a person carefully so you'll definitely find something good in this person. You can appreciate his hair, eyes, body or what he wears such as coat, watch, shoes or mobile, etc. Still, if you do not like anything in a person then praise the person's qualities. Or you can appreciate his achievements, success, education, position, business, car, bangaloo etc.
Indirect Praise
Indirect Praise
If you can not appreciate anyone at all so you can apply these techniques. Because it's an Indirect appreciation. Without appreciation, you will appreciate any person by saying this.
- Greet with smiling
- Giving respect/honor
- Calling him with a good name
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